Parkinson’s has an impact on sexual function and intimacy at many levels.
Diagnosis may affect both partners emotionally, resulting in lack of desire. If
you try to have sex or intimate relationships in this tense period, you will
probably encounter some difficulties due to anxiety and low mood. Fear of
rejection, and a lack of self-esteem combined with sexual difficulties can be
upsetting and unsettling.
It is therefore very important to have a lot of supportive, intimate love
during this period, and if you do encounter any sexual difficulties talk to
each other about them and don’t give up. Don’t be afraid to discuss your
worries with your partner, your doctor or a sex therapist because communication
is an important part of finding solutions.
Seeking medical treatment for depression and anxiety can also help you to
regain your previous sexual desire and sexual function. But remember that one
of the most frequent side effects of antidepressants is difficulty in reaching
orgasm, so do talk to your doctor if you think this may be affecting you. If
your medical treatment demands the use of antidepressants, a good sex therapist
can assist you in maintaining a satisfying sexual life.
Motor symptoms, such as rigidity, tremor and bradykinesia may influence your flexibility
and may mean that you need to take a more passive role, thus imposing a more
active role on your partner. Some couples cope well with these sexual role
changes; others need professional support to accommodate such changes and
physical limitations. Again, discussing the difficulties you experience is
important in finding ways to overcome them.
Many
doctors and healthcare professionals find it difficult to address sexual issues
– however, you and your partner are entitled to receive help to promote your
sexual health. So try to share your concerns and overcome any embarrassment to ensure
that you receive the help you need to overcome your difficulties.
